Peeling off

When people ask me what one gains while training in Aikido, I usually answer that in my own experience it seems like I have thrown away more than I obtained.
Some of them raise an eyebrow; How can that be? After all, now you are stronger and more skillful...

I believe that this is what meets the eye. Under the surface, on an internal level, a person is being slowly peeled. The journey progresses inwards, into the core.

After walking long enough we find out that many things such as ranks, belts, and titles are merely symbolizing the step-stone we are on at a certain moment. We realize that the practice of clarity, awareness, manners, and compassion are far more profound. We understand that simplicity, integrity and kindness are leading us on a quiet road. And as we walk deeper and deeper within our search - we are peeling off.
While we train daily, sweat, and work our bodies, we throw away false concepts, expectations and beliefs, bad habits and some parts of our personality that do not contribute to the balance of our lives. Slowly shaving off while holding the vision of becoming a kinder human being, and empowering others to realize their own visions.